Second entry: fiancee with depression?
Thank you for all your credible suggestions and info. I do work in the mental health field and maybe that is what is SOOOOOO frustrating about it. Without counseling or nagging him I do present options but I almost feel as though he has given up. Concerns me even though he says he is "safe" (re: suicidal ideations or thoughts). I do see sense guilt (not a good sign). He had even considered the thought of using our pre-marital counselor for his own individual counseling afterwards re: baggage and such. His ex-wife is a real &*$#@ and apparently told him some things that I guess are his "tapes" in his head replaying. He is a great guy but heck, I can’t deny my pleasures and goals and needs. I think his family is shocked and my friends seem a little in disbelief. Thanks again and maybe I can print the screening off and leave it with my workstuff in a place he will have to come across it and hopefully will contemplate taking the test. Thanks again. I will talk to his mom, too.
Good luck talking to them!
mmk!!! yeah whatever!!
your avatar is fugly!!!
it look like in between a boy and a girl!!!
i think i’ll call it "it"
xoxo
good luck, he will get better, it took me over a year to show signs of getting better, but with you support he will get there.